Listening with knowledge and empathy.
Listening to someone disclosing that they are in an abusive relationship is not easy and whilst I wish I could write a list of things of what to say and what not to say life is just not that simple and domestic violence certainly isn't. Of course, their certain do's...
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So, what does constitute physical abuse?
In my line of work, I hear many stories of abuse every week. Over the years, I have noticed a pattern. Women will say to me, it was never physical abuse, but it was mental and emotional abuse. Then they will go on to tell me things that happened to them while in their...
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Domestic violence – 3 things to do when someone discloses in the workplace
Domestic violence is becoming a mainstream conversation and with that the veil of secrecy is dropping. An environment is being created where more people will reach out for help. Which I know from experience is as difficult as it is important. Disclosure in the...
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Why domestic violence policies without training can be harmful
I have often fantasied about there being domestic violence policies when I was working in corporate whilst at the same time as being in an abusive relationship. Would that support mean a different outcome for me? Could I have kept my career? Would I have had the...
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Why does it take seven times to leave an abusive relationship?
One of the things I am passionate about is reducing the numbers of times it takes someone to leave an abusive relationship. Every time someone returns the negative impact grows. Understanding the complexities of domestic violence is difficult but when you are inside...
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A thank you on International Women’s Day
Today is International Women's Day! It is a day where I stop to think are things getting better in the area of domestic violence? You know I would love to say yes, but if I am honest I would say the answer is a resounding no! We need to keep the conversation going...
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At first I didn’t notice the abuse
I have a bad elbow, it is really painful, even it touching my clothes hurts. It is clear I have done something to injure it. But surely with this pain, that is getting worse I would notice when the injury happened and be able to tell when this pain started. It was...
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Corporate Social Responsibility – more important than ever
In recent weeks, it has been hard to read the news. In Australia, we have Manus and Nauru, and the Government’s inability to resolve this problem - now I don't pretend to know what the answers are. But I do know that it is not to lock up innocent men and women. And we...
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A New Year A New Hope
So, 2016 is over and will forever be in the past. As each year passes I always take time to reflect. Did I truly live this year? Was I the person I want to be? For me as with so many others 2016 was a mixed bag for me. Professionally it was the year every business...
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Seeking help this Christmas
Christmas holidays are a time most people associate with happiness, gift giving and family. For many the thought of the holidays brings up happy memories and feelings of joy. December is filled with shopping and Christmas celebrations. This is the time of year...
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